Saturday, February 12, 2011

The Single Girl's Guide to Valentine's Day



   So, unless you’ve been living in a world with no access to television or advertising of any kind, it’s obvious that Valentine’s day is coming up. What does that mean for us single girls? Well first of all, it means we get to bypass treacherously long restaurant wait times, obnoxiously huge, fluffy plush dogs, and chocolate of questionable quality that comes with maps. But best of all- it’s an excuse to do whatever the heck we want! Use this day to pamper yourself. At a loss for what to do? Have no fear- as I’ve compiled some suggestions to help you realize that Valentine’s day as a single girl is not as bad as it may seem! (And perhaps even better!)
1.)    First of all, you should start the day off with an extravagant breakfast. Stuffed French toast? Nutella crepes? Omelettes? Fruit parfaits? Go scouring the internet for some truly decadent breakfast recipes and eat something divine to start your day off right. You may need to wake up a little bit earlier for this but I guarantee it will be worth it! Gloat to your classmates about how wonderful of a breakfast you ate as they nibble on their dry pop-tarts.
2.)    Secondly, use this day to look super cute. If you’re usually a sweats and jeans type of gal, use today to put on a dress and break out the curling iron. Normally don’t wear make-up to class? Throw on some hot pink lipgloss or try a smokey eye just for the heck of it. Got some high heels that you save solely for going out? Wear ‘em. Because today is your day! And if dresses and heels aren’t your thing- then just wear whatever makes you feel the most beautiful and just rock it!
3.)    So classes are over, and it’s time to get home. Bubble bath time! Run a steaming, hot bubble bath and fix yourself a glass of sparkling water with a squeeze of lime, or pour a glass of wine/champagne if you’re of age, and just relax. Play your favorite relaxing music in the background for an extra dose of atmosphere. Of course- you’ve also gotta have on a therapeutic face mask while soaking in your bath chamber of luxury. I especially love the Montagne Jeunesse face masks you can buy at ULTA - these $1.99 individual packs are truly glorious and come in different varieties to suit your skin. Use this time in the bathtub to soak, and just relish in being a girl!
4.)    Now that you’re all soaked, give yourself a manicure and pedicure in your favorite nailcolor shade. Perhaps get one of those nail-decorating kits and paint something ridiculous on one of your nails, just because you can. It’s Valentine’s day! Anything goes!
5.)    One word. Fondue. Melt some chocolate chips on the stove and dip your favorite fruit (strawberries, anyone?) in it while watching a super cheesy movie. You know, that one movie that you feel guilty for loving and would be embarrassed about people knowing you loved so much. It’s gotta be that one. No Oscar-contending emotional historical dramas here- only pure fluff is acceptable for this occasion!
6.)    Feel free to include your other single friends to these events and turn it into a party if you wish. Not feeling fondue? Order in your favorite food or get together and cook a gourmet meal. The point is to completely indulge yourself for a day in whichever way you wish.
7.)    The day after Valentine’s Day- go to your local CVS and purchase as much half-off V-day candy as you want. Okay, I know what you’re thinking. I’m supposed to be this healthy-eating guru and shun anything with a high calorie count. But there are some days when you just want chocolate, and there are some things that are just too good of bargains to pass up. And the day-after-Valentine’s day chocolates are just one of those things. Plus- who am I to deny a girl, single or not, chocolate on Valentine’s day! But please try to not get those mystery filling chocolates that you need a map to eat. Stick to the good stuff like Lindt, Godiva, and Ghirardelli for some true chocolate bliss. But hey- if mystery mapped chocolates are your thing then by all means go for it.
   At the end of the night, realize that being single is pretty awesome, Valentine’s Day or not! In these crazy times where we’re now old enough for our friends to all be getting engaged and married, it can be hard at times, but just realize that these are the only times in our lives to find out who we really are- and just use this time to have fun, pursue your passions, and discover!

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